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In Loving Memory Of Stuart Smith 1963 - 2011
Stuart Smith was the love of my life, and I would like to thank everyone for their unbelievably inspiring support and friendship.  He was my soul mate, partner and playmate... and I cannot imagine life without my best friend. We would have been married 25 years on Valentine's Day in 2012, and I am heartbroken that we will not be able to have the adventure of a lifetime for the next 25 years together.  However, I am very lucky to have had Stu for the last 27 years...  He was the sweetest and most gorgeous man I have ever met.  My favorite memories are of us running down to the beach at Waikiki at sunrise in only our swim suits, paddle boarding on his Mom's lake in Bloomingdale, and riding our bikes in TriBeCa to watch the sunset at the Statue of Liberty.  We built our life and business together in TriBeCa, with a dream to also have a shop in Waikiki.  It was always our goal to be socially responsible and to make a positive difference in people's lives in whatever we did.

Regrettably, I was in Paris on business when Stu was in the wrong place at the wrong time on July 10, 2011.  Tragically, while enjoying the evening on the roof garden with a friend, he came too close to the edge and accidentally lost his balance.  We often spoke about all the situations he could not believe he survived in the past during his diving career, and acknowledged he would have lost his life helping rescue people  at The World Trade Center on September 11 had I not been in our shop that fateful morning.  He was one of 6 Navy Deep Sea Divers trained in search and rescue to graduate out of a class of 33, and was a fun loving, fearless daredevil.  If Stu's passing is fate, then it is a great love-story... If it is chance, then it is a tragic accident.  We met at the airport in Hawaii and said goodbye at the airport in New York.  My only consolation is that Stu left this world the happiest he had ever been.  Ironically, we spent the last 10 years rebuilding our business after September 11th and everything was going great.  He was getting ready for the dream trip of a life time to Machu Picchu and the Amazon for the month of September 2011, and was so excited to open his new raw juice bar when he returned in October.  I am the eternal optimist, and believe the lesson to learn is that life is too short not to appreciate every moment with cherished loved ones and wonderful friends.   
Aloha, Aileen

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